Gratitude beyond Thanksgiving
- Tanya Arora

- Nov 19, 2025
- 3 min read
Gratitude gets plenty of attention in November, but once the candles blow out and the leftovers disappear, most people slip back into autopilot.
But in the Vedic tradition, gratitude isn’t seasonal. It’s a spiritual discipline. A way of relating to life that trains your mind, softens your heart, and keeps you aligned with your inner rhythm no matter what month it is.

At its core is santosha, the yogic principle of contentment. Not the passive kind that tells you to settle… but the deep, grounded contentment that grows when you learn to notice the abundance already flowing around you.
This kind of gratitude isn’t performative. It’s not forced. And it has nothing to do with perfect circumstances.
It’s cultivated breath by breath.
Santosha: Where gratitude becomes spiritual practice
Santosha asks you to pay attention to the present moment in a way that dissolves comparison, scarcity, and urgency. In everyday life, santosha looks like:
recognizing what is instead of obsessing over what should be
returning to your body when your mind spirals
appreciating quiet, ordinary beauty
holding yourself in compassion even on difficult days
It’s the shift from “I’ll be grateful when…”to “There is something worthy here, even now.”
Gratitude becomes less of a checklist and more of a state of being.
Why gratitude feels hard
Modern life constantly evolves around speed, stimulation, and comparison. Technology accelerates the pace so fast that your nervous system rarely gets a moment of stillness.
In that environment, gratitude often gets flattened into a concept rather than lived experience.
You might:
scroll between tasks without absorbing anything
lose sensory awareness
seek micro-hits of dopamine instead of feeling fullness
open your phone “just to check something” and end up in an Instagram loop
This isn’t a moral failing, it's a habit loop shaped by design.
Gratitude practice interrupts that loop and reconnects you to presence, which is the foundation of santosha.
Gratitude as a seasonal rhythm
Gratitude looks different in summer sunshine than it does in winter snow. Each season has its own invitation.
In late fall and winter, gratitude often looks like:
sipping warm tea while watching the snow from a window
slowing down your evenings
savoring warmth, scent, texture
noticing the comfort of blankets, home, routine
choosing one ritual that grounds you when daylight fades
These are spiritual practices, even if they feel simple.
When the world quiets, gratitude becomes quieter and deeper.
Mindful Abundance: A practice for daily life
Mindful abundance means training your awareness to notice what nourishes you: sensory, emotional, relational, and energetic.
Try this for a week:
The Sensory Check-In
Once a day, pause and observe:
What do you hear?
What do you smell?
What feels comforting against your skin?
What taste is still lingering in your mouth?
This grounds your gratitude in the present moment, not in a list of ideas.
The Enoughness Scan
Ask yourself: What is enough for me today? Let the answer be small and honest. This dissolves the pressure of endless striving.
Gratitude as a daily practice
Gratitude is not a seasonal performance. It’s a spiritual practice rooted in presence, contentment, and awareness- a way of coming home to yourself again and again.
When you practice santosha, gratitude stops being something you do and becomes a quiet, steady way you move through the world.




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